Sorry for being away so long. I was in Taiwan visiting my mom's relatives. Just as usual Taiwanese girls' sense of fashion has becomed from bad to worse. it's wierd how they can dress like this.

When i was there, my cousin told me a story of how a girl got cheated by her bf and i was partly surprised how dumb the girl was and how d bf take advantage of it.

The girl was one of the top student in school and she fell in love with this guy whom she met at some friend's b'day party. They coupled and all that. he told her all kinds of things to make her convinced he loved her. then she gave herself to him la. one day, during one of their dates, he drugged her n passed her to his frens to kaotim as well. she found out about it, somehow, but she didnt report or do anything. still continued the relationship. apparently for the namesake of love. in this case it's one-sided love.

then one day, he told her his mother had some illness but cannot find money to pay for d medical bills so borrow money from some ahlong. he called his gang all stage a scene pretending to beat him up for not paying d debts. she then go dig up ALL her savings, took her parents' money (ATM card) n give to d guy n ran away from home with him.

they rented some small flat where they lived together (not happily ever after). one day he said he had to go to hong kong to do business. she was working at that time so she had some money and as expected she gave her money to him again. she trusted him too much.

after that, she never heard of him again.

so girls, don't so easily trust a guy (even though i'm a guy and alot of girls these days cannot be trusted as well). especially if the guy has no respect for you (drug u and use u and give u to their frens). cos true gentlemen (like me) treat girls with respect. lik they say girls are meant to be loved not harmed.

i told her this story. Her emotions were hard to read but she said that sometimes girls are willing to do anything for the person they love. i'm also willing to do anything for her but if goes too far, it's not fair for me anymore. I am fortunate i have someone who genuinely cares and loves me for who i am and for everything, the good and the bad the way i do her. and i'm glad i'm with her and not anyone else..