I was just thinking this few days how we live our lives. we hurt those we love and it hurts us even more when we see the ones we love hurt.. by us. they cry and all u wanna do is just hold them in your arms bt then ego stand in the way. days go by and we feel so guilty inside afraid that they might never forgive us....
Im very down these few days and i wished i could turn back time..
maybe time will heal......
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Sunday, January 20, 2008
Sorry for being away so long. I was in Taiwan visiting my mom's relatives. Just as usual Taiwanese girls' sense of fashion has becomed from bad to worse. it's wierd how they can dress like this.
When i was there, my cousin told me a story of how a girl got cheated by her bf and i was partly surprised how dumb the girl was and how d bf take advantage of it.
The girl was one of the top student in school and she fell in love with this guy whom she met at some friend's b'day party. They coupled and all that. he told her all kinds of things to make her convinced he loved her. then she gave herself to him la. one day, during one of their dates, he drugged her n passed her to his frens to kaotim as well. she found out about it, somehow, but she didnt report or do anything. still continued the relationship. apparently for the namesake of love. in this case it's one-sided love.
then one day, he told her his mother had some illness but cannot find money to pay for d medical bills so borrow money from some ahlong. he called his gang all stage a scene pretending to beat him up for not paying d debts. she then go dig up ALL her savings, took her parents' money (ATM card) n give to d guy n ran away from home with him.
they rented some small flat where they lived together (not happily ever after). one day he said he had to go to hong kong to do business. she was working at that time so she had some money and as expected she gave her money to him again. she trusted him too much.
after that, she never heard of him again.
so girls, don't so easily trust a guy (even though i'm a guy and alot of girls these days cannot be trusted as well). especially if the guy has no respect for you (drug u and use u and give u to their frens). cos true gentlemen (like me) treat girls with respect. lik they say girls are meant to be loved not harmed.
i told her this story. Her emotions were hard to read but she said that sometimes girls are willing to do anything for the person they love. i'm also willing to do anything for her but if goes too far, it's not fair for me anymore. I am fortunate i have someone who genuinely cares and loves me for who i am and for everything, the good and the bad the way i do her. and i'm glad i'm with her and not anyone else..
When i was there, my cousin told me a story of how a girl got cheated by her bf and i was partly surprised how dumb the girl was and how d bf take advantage of it.
The girl was one of the top student in school and she fell in love with this guy whom she met at some friend's b'day party. They coupled and all that. he told her all kinds of things to make her convinced he loved her. then she gave herself to him la. one day, during one of their dates, he drugged her n passed her to his frens to kaotim as well. she found out about it, somehow, but she didnt report or do anything. still continued the relationship. apparently for the namesake of love. in this case it's one-sided love.
then one day, he told her his mother had some illness but cannot find money to pay for d medical bills so borrow money from some ahlong. he called his gang all stage a scene pretending to beat him up for not paying d debts. she then go dig up ALL her savings, took her parents' money (ATM card) n give to d guy n ran away from home with him.
they rented some small flat where they lived together (not happily ever after). one day he said he had to go to hong kong to do business. she was working at that time so she had some money and as expected she gave her money to him again. she trusted him too much.
after that, she never heard of him again.
so girls, don't so easily trust a guy (even though i'm a guy and alot of girls these days cannot be trusted as well). especially if the guy has no respect for you (drug u and use u and give u to their frens). cos true gentlemen (like me) treat girls with respect. lik they say girls are meant to be loved not harmed.
i told her this story. Her emotions were hard to read but she said that sometimes girls are willing to do anything for the person they love. i'm also willing to do anything for her but if goes too far, it's not fair for me anymore. I am fortunate i have someone who genuinely cares and loves me for who i am and for everything, the good and the bad the way i do her. and i'm glad i'm with her and not anyone else..
Friday, January 4, 2008
Tribute To Phil
A young man.. Only 35 years.. Fit as can be.. A footballer.. Captain of Motherwell, Phil O' Donnell collasped in the field and was pronounced dead due to heart failure..
Phil O' Donnell
Post mortem concludes that he had suffered left ventricular failure of the heart. However, he was not the first footballer to collasped on a field and die. Last August, Antonio Puerta, the Sevilla midfielder, collapsed 35 minutes into a match and died three days later from cardiac arrest. Marc-Vivien Foe, the ex-West Ham United and Manchester City midfielder, 28, died of a heart attack while playing for Cameroon in the Confederations Cup in June 2003. The cause of his death was identified as an enlarged right heart ventricle. However, his death brought about a lot of shock, sadness and sorrow for his family, fans and footballers and even for people who has never heard of him. Motherwell fans have been laying scarves, strips and pictures at the gates of Fir Park.
Ranger fans reading the fans' tribute
A teddy bear left by one of the fans
Jerseys with sayings
Some of the team's players travelled to the ground on Sunday morning to pay their respects as Fir Park has turned into a 'shrine'.
Tributes by fans
Phil O' Donnell leaves behind his wife, Eileen and four young children.
*1 minute of applause*
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